I am still miffed.
The very FIRST thing is--how dare someone take pictures of you and your CHILD and use them for ANY purposes? That ALONE is enough to be pissed about.
I am so sorry you had to deal with this crap on your birthday. For the record--you have a lot of people here that support you and truly care when you are attacked for your voice.
This kind of malicious behavior is NOT OK and you didn't deserve it.
Stay strong--and STAY YOU. :)